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18Sep/092

Updates: A holiday in France followed by the swine flu (or not)

It's been quite a while and the month I've spent away from this blog has been, needless to say, eventful. Some stuff I'll talk about, others I'll leave for a later time.

In early August, I was perusing the Ryanair site for cheap plane tickets to Hyères, France where my family has a summer home. It's in the south just along the water, and I was in desperate need of sun in the final week of the summer before buckling down for what was sure to be (barring some cataclysmic shift of Earth's axis) a cold and dark winter in Stockholm. Ryanair happens to have flights that go from Skavsta (about 90 minutes outside of Stockholm) directly to Hyères which is perfect. Furthermore, the roundtrip ticket was 50 EUR! Which is insanely cheap. I couldn't pass up a bargain. Better yet, I was able to convince a buddy to join me for half the trip!

I wouldn't be lying if I told you we did nothing but laid on the beach almost the entire time we were there after which we'd go out trying to meet French women and were totally unsuccessful. But that's ok, because the trip was about clearing our minds, relaxing, rejuvenating, reenergizing, and coming back to Sthlm with a renewed sense of purpose. Needless to say, we accomplished just about all that. And it's been a great autumn thus far.

That was until about Tuesday of this week when I woke up with a sore neck. I thought nothing of it at the time other than I probably just slept on it wrong. When I woke up on Wednesday, it was a bit more sore and my throat started to ache. By 3pm on Wednesday I could barely move and I went home. I fell asleep on my couch and woke up in a state of horrifying pain and disillusionment. Okay maybe it wasn't that bad, but I was not in a happy place. Let's just say the last time I felt this weak and ill was when I got the flu seven years ago when I first moved to Kansas City, so I was pretty sure that's what it was.

After deciding not to head to the hospital for medication on Wednesday night, I decided to go to the doctor's office on Thursday. Thursday morning I was a total wreck. My strength was at about 20% and it took me about 30 minutes to walk three blocks.

To be honest, I know there's nothing you can really do about the flu other than wait for it to pass, but I went for two reasons. The first was to see if they would actually give me medication, Tamiflu or the Swedish equivalent. The second was actually due to a nationalist desire to help my countrymen out in documenting the spread of swine flu. My expectation was that I would be helping the Swedish scientists and government by getting them more information about the disease.

Both reasons were completely misguided. My doctor essentially told me that they wouldn't be testing me for swine flu. They were reserving all tests for pregnant women and the elderly since they were "at risk". She also asked me if I knew the details (versus the rumors) about swine flu. I was proud that I had. I knew that swine flu was really not all that different from the regular flu. The survival rate is as high as that of the regular flu. The worldwide medical concern of the swine flu pandemic surrounded how susceptible younger and healthier people were. Since there are so many young people in the world, there could potentially be far more cases. And if far more people got the flu, then far more pregnant and elderly people would be exposed to it, thus causing the medical field to worry a bit more about this one than they would about the regular, annual flu epidemic.

So I wouldn't be getting tested. She said that because of my demographic, it was likelier that it was swine flu, but that we would never know. She told me it was definitely a flu. She also told me to go home, rest up, drink lots of fluids, and to not go out or spend time with anyone. She also said she couldn't spare any medication since they were saving it for high risk cases. She said I didn't need it and that if I'm healthy, I'll be just fine.

I agreed.

One thing I appreciate about the Swedish healthcare system is that it puts its faith in its doctors and that its doctors truly know best. Doctors don't give in to angry patients, and they don't hand out prescriptions to subsidize their pay. They are prudent and smart in their behavior, acting in the best interest of the country and not of the individual. Following my third interaction with the Swedish healthcare system, I am proud of what this country has been able to accomplish and can only hope that the US can emulate it someday.

In the meantime, my immune system has been getting its ass kicked by this virus, so I hope to be at 100% by Monday or Tuesday.

Wish me luck!

7Nov/083

Ref'election' 2008

(I'm sure I'm not the only one that came up with that stupid blog title)

A few friends have said it, and I couldn't agree more:

I have never been more proud to be an American than I was this week. I can't remember the last time I felt this proud of my country.

I've have never seen so many proud, freedom-wielding citizens take to the polls for something they believed so strongly in...

...on both sides of the ballot.

Regardless of whether you voted Democrat or Republican, Americans should feel an immense amount of pride in the fact that they, passionate about their future took to the polls to debate political ideologies, in the face of an extraordinarily difficult world situation, with the hopes that they would make a difference, make the world a better place for themselves, for others, and for the future.

I was cynical. I truly believed that Americans had become complacent in their system, that they'd become wealthy, spoiled, lazy.

Then it occurred to me. That thing that makes a great President. It's not political ideology, fiscal policies, or even moral stance.

It's a great man.

A man possessing intelligence, determination, motivation, honesty, and personal drive.

It's the ability to overcome the impossible. The ability to look adversity in the eye and to charge through it without looking back.

When humans see an individual overcome adversity, it motivates them to be great individuals themselves. This has been the course of history. Humans live to follow a great person and to emulate everything they see in that great person because it's proof that personal greatness isn't impossible.

My hope is that Americans will spend the next four years not putting their faith in a single government or man, but rather in themselves to be the change they want to see in the world.

Because that was what electing Barack Obama was REALLY about.

(I happened to be listening to the Rudy soundtrack as I wrote this.)

9Oct/083

Rommy is supporting No on Prop 8 and so should you…

Reasons why to me this is such a brainless decision:

  • The US Government has made the issue of same-sex marriage a moral one, plain and simple.
  • The US Government is not the religious or moral judge of its citizens.
  • Marriage should not be seen as an institution (especially not a government institution), but rather as a sacred bond between two people.
  • The US Government should rather concern itself about (and spend our tax money on) key issues like education, healthcare, poverty, security and the overall welfare of its citizens.
  • Tolerance in all forms is critical to the survival of a free society, one that prides itself on the basic civil rights of all its citizens and of all human beings.

I am an independent and as someone who is very fond of American history and very familiar with philosophical government ideals, I find it funny to think that the GOP can pride itself on its age old philosophy of being the party that supports individual opportunity, freedom, and the hard work ethic; that everything is earned and nothing is free; that determination, common sense, personal ambition with unlimited freedom as its underlying foundation is critical to survival of a free society. The Republican Party under its founder, Abraham Lincoln, never wanted to play God. On the contrary, it was founded on the Libertarian premise that the government serves to protect the nation from internal and external threats and to foster a free society conducive to diverse opinions, beliefs, and lifestyles.

Thus the modern GOP has done such a fantastic job of shitting all over this guiding principle these past eight years. It somehow evolved its philosophy by trying to play God, by being the self-proclaimed moral compass of mankind using God as the rallying cry for America against all the moral forces of evil, that Abe Lincoln, the publicly agnostic President, is probably rolling around in his grave at this moronic sensibility.

Abe Lincoln once said himself "The Bible is not my book nor Christianity my profession. I could never give assent to the long complicated statements of Christian dogma." He for one believed that common sense is a greater guiding principle than religious ideologies or ethical beliefs could ever be.

And the Democrats aren't blameless. In fact, they are perhaps worse, because of their fear of alienating the this (very un-American), religious/moral contingent that the GOP has managed keep tucked away in their back pocket. Thus their lack of balls on this issue causes them to behave in an even more deplorable way.

Therefore, if I'm going to concern myself with anything regarding the US elections, it won't be on some dramatic celebrity banter happening between two self-serving presidential candidates who are unlikely to fix squat shit at the federal level, being guided by their own political ideology where there is a right and a wrong; where homosexuality and the right to marriage are considered 'less equal'.

My concerns will remain on the things I have the power to change, in my own local society. I may not be able to vote, but I will do anything I can from here to get the message out to my friends and family about such an important measure.

...a measure that should never have even been a measure in the first place.

It makes me truly fucking ashamed to be a citizen of a 'free' society that can't instantly recognize the personal freedom and universal civil rights of all its citizens.